I believe I've mentioned before that one of the weird things my friend Andrea and I came up with is a (completely inappropriate) game called Celebrity Death. Unlike the Werewolf this one is pretty simple, the second a celebrity dies you notify the other the fastest. We do not keep any scores but clearly the bigger win is in the bigger the celebrity you were first to hear about. We've recently gotten Brooke into the game too because uhh... we're just assholes. Anyways! Today she got me with the death of Jackass star Ryan Dunn.
My response, admittedly, has to be one of the worst things I've ever said. Probably because I honestly didn't know this guys real name until yesterday.
Now that's offensive! More than I can say for when I read about what happened afterward to Roger Ebert. The guy is an open former alcoholic, but he was pretty quickly attacked because he said it might have been dumb if this guy drove drunk? (if that was the case). PLEASE. It might not be "the time" to make that assertion, I get that part really I do. Obviously I'm not happy that he or his friend died, nor was I there to know what happened, but I'd just like to make a point that I find people too often being afraid of saying anything because someone else didn't "make it ok" and say it first. The reason being when you do STUFF LIKE THAT happens to you. Every person who has heard this story in the past two days has thought it, no matter how sad they are; and while it's a serious tragedy that it happened at all.. just for a moment I'd like you to consider the fact that this whole thing would be spun much differently if their car had the misfortune of crashing into another car and killing someone else. Maybe a bunch of kids on their way back from graduation.
I don't mind being an asshole about things if I'm an asshole who maybe has a good point.